The Lights in the Sky are Stars

"Third Sexed & Polysexual

Hi, I’m Elle & I identify, gender wise, as third sexed. Third sexed refers to an individual who doesn’t identify as either conclusively masculine (male) or feminine (female) but an androgynous combination of the two, or having gender fluidity, pangendered, intergendered, gender androgyny, bigendered, or the umbrella term gender queer. I identify as so because I’m in a state to where I’m drawn in both directions of gender. I’m not to be confused with the construct of gender that only defines a binary system of gender — only female or male, but I’m rather both interchangeably. I say this because I’ve got a certain duplicity to my gender. I no more masculine than I am feminine & vice versa. I’m, to best categorise me, both butch & femme rolled into one.

As far as my sexuality would go I identify as polysexual, not definitely lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or heterosexual — I’m attracted to Bisexuals, FTM & MTF Transexuals, Lesbians, & Heterosexual women. In an attempt to explain, I am attracted to the feminine attributes rather than masculine attirbutes of people in general but for the exception of FTM Transexuals. With MTF Transexuals I’m attracted to the arch of translesbianism; the span of sexuality that is encompassed by a transgender female, if you get my understanding. I’m attracted to FTM, for somewhat of the same reasoning; the feminine attraction is met by the presence of feminine attributes of transgendered men.

I’m not overly complex until it comes to my sexuality. Aesthetics captures my eyes as it does many & it comes in various forms but I only weigh my attraction to feminine attributes & that presence alone.”

Submitted by loudcaps